Can I Be Honest About Something No One Talks About?
- Tanya Rinsky Coaching
- Jun 10
- 2 min read

Ever feel like a failure?
You really tried.
You showed up, did your best, and still… it didn’t go the way you hoped.
What if you looked at it differently?
Let’s say you wanted to drop a few pounds before your cousin’s wedding.
You had that dress in mind — the one hanging in your closet, just waiting.
So, you started early.
You cut back on calories, got in your workouts, drank your water, skipped the second glass of wine, and passed on the late-night snacks.
And the weight came off… just not as much as you wanted.
Wedding day arrives, and the dress still doesn’t fit.
Now what?
What do you tell yourself about the last few months?
That it was a waste?
That you failed?
Let’s give it some thought.
Did you learn anything about yourself?
Did you find a few new yummy, healthy recipes?
Did you congratulate yourself on moving your body consistently?
Were you proud of yourself when you refused the second glass of wine or opted for a sugar-free dessert?
What lessons did you learn that will carry you through to your goal?
Was it the goal of fitting in the dress or the guaranteed compliments that motivated you?
What other milestones or goals can you implement to keep you going?
That’s not failure. That’s foundation.
Your goal is not just about achieving "the thing". It’s about building the habits, confidence, and self-trust that carry you forward — long after the event.
That’s the work I do with my clients.
We don’t just set goals. We build the identity that makes those goals inevitable.
Want to see what that could look like for you?
Let’s talk. No pressure. Just possibilities.
👉 Schedule your free discovery call here.
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